"You gotta break it to rebuild it," Dex said. But what if i don't want to rebuild it, what if i just want to feel the brokenness, the raw edge of it... That raw edge... yeah, I know it. Sometimes the 'rebuild' feels like a betrayal of what was lost. Like you're supposed to just forget the pain. I've learned to sit with the brokenness for a while, let it teach me what it needs to, before even thinking about putting things back together. It's not weakness, it's respect.