LetsReflect.com is a social networking website that is centered on the idea of Self-Actualization. Self-Actualization is the desire to reach your full potential. Members can create their own profile page on which they can list reflections, goals, favorite quotes, etc. to try to reach their full potential while helping other LetsReflect.com users.
My Reflections
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Sometimes I am wrong.
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I need to win the battle against stress.
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Self confidence is important. I need to feel sexy to be sexy.
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Smiling, laughter, and giggles are the perfect medication.
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Seeing someone who has everything that I want has encouraged me to try harder to have the perfect family someday.
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If someone means a lot to you, make them a priority, not an option.
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Time seems to go slow in some aspects of life, but so quickly in others.
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The land of overtiredom can be the silliest place.
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I'm tired of feeling alone.
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When it feels like everything has gone wrong, stop thinking. Seriously turn off your mind and take a nap.
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Setting aside special time for one another helps a long-distance relationship succeed.
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I'm tired of always feeling sad.
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Being together makes being apart so much harder.
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Reflecting on our past brings a smile to my face.
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I am tired of feeling forgotten. I matter. I'm important. Stop making me cry.
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Tired of feeling numb. Tired of not smiling. Tired of feeling lost. Tired of so much. When will my life find that caffeine it needs to wake up? My boyfriend mentioned to me that the only time he ever sees me happy is when I am drunk. I need help.
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I'm scared to go out there. Don't make me.
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I no longer enjoy the company of others. I'd rather wind up alone.
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"Actions speak louder than words"
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Why am I always the only one who needs fixing? Aren't we all broken?
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My education has failed me too many times. I'm about to fail on it.
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If anyone reads this maybe I will realize someone cares about me. Truly cares about me.
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How much longer do I have to hide? I'm ready to be who I used to be. That happy girl that people liked. Not the actor I have become.
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Never a priority.
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I love leaving, but once I get where I'm going, I'm never satisfied.
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You can't teach an old dog new tricks. But sometimes that dog remembers the tricks he knew in his youth.
About Me
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Female.
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21 years old.
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Currently an undergrad at West Chester University to earn a degree in accounting.
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The oldest of four and the only girl.
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I have been dating my boyfriend Michael for three years and he makes me the happiest I have ever been.
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Hobbies: arts and crafts, dancing, singing, shopping, watching tv, laughing, skyping, napping, getting dressed up and spending time with my true love.
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I was a dancer for 14 years of my life, performing at locations such as Disney World and The Miss America Parade.
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I love children and have wanted them for so long. I hope in the near future I can begin to start a family of my own.
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I am a huge baseball fan and LOVE the Phillies.
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I have two adorably wonder pet rats that I love to death!!
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The best stress reliever is coloring.
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I enjoy being Jewish and love the traditions that come along with it, but sadly have lost any belief in G-d that I had once had...
I'm Grateful For...
1.
Michael Justin.
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Family and friends.
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Bagels and cream cheese.
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Chester and Frodo.
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The little things in life that make me laugh.
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Caffeine.
My Goals
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Gain the courage to go back to a therapist.
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Treat Michael the way he deserves to be treated.
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Learn that it's okay to be happy.
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Smile more often.
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Defeat the evils of stress.
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Find a job and handle the pressures that come along with it.
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To increase my self-esteem and feel pretty.
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Look at my life in a more optimistic fashion.
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To stop hurting myself and those I love any longer.
I Commit To...
1.
Not getting worked up so easily, and taking slow relaxing breaths.
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Finding employment over the summer.
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Seeing the good through all the bad that gets in the way.
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Staying in shape to make myself feel good.
My Affirmations
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I am unique.
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I am beautiful.
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I am not fat.
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I am intelligent.
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I can do anything I strive for.
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I am a strong woman.
Words and Phrases I've Heard
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Change.
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Help.
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Sexy.
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Confidence.
My Fears...
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My death, and the death of those who I love.
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My bare hands.
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Spiders, wolves, and geese.
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Most creatures that live in the water.
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Not being smart enough to graduate.
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Losing the love that I have worked so hard to find.
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The fact that extreme depression and substance abuse run in my family, and have killed many of my relatives.
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That I will not be able to have children.
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Becoming obese.
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Milk.
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Cleaning.
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Not being able to pay back all of my student loans.
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Not knowing what happens next.
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Driving to new places.
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Being out of my comfort zone.
My Favorite Quotes
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Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. - Buddha
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We should consider every day lost on which we have not danced at least once. And we should call every truth false which was not accompanied by at least one laugh. -Friedrich Nietzsche
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Nothing in this world that's worth having comes easy -Scrubs
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The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return. -Moulin Rouge
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when the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace. - Jimi Hendrix
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If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree. ~Jim Rohn
My Bookmarks
My Favorite Reflectors
Music That Empowers Me
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Breathe (2AM) - Anna Nalick
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Speechless- Lady Gaga
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Halo- Beyonce
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I Turn To You- Christina Aguilera
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Come What May- Moulin Rouge
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My Best Friend- Weezer
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Gravity- Sara Bareilles
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The Saltwater Room- Owl City
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No Such Thing- John Mayer
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You and I Both- Jason Mraz
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Everything- Michael Buble
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Come on Get Higher- Matt Nathanson
My Favorites...
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Cuddling, kissing, feeling loved.
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Chocolate chip cookies.
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Hot summer days.
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Coloring, painting, crafting, etc.
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Reading girlie books.
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Romantic comedies.
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Pat Burrell.
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Playing board games and cards.
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Flip flops. (I hate sneakers)
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Disney everything.
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Burning candles.
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Skype.
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Dancing.
